Life love — Five hidden ways to know your Heart. ~ Flyplanett
I believe we always know what our life love is, go deep into your heart and you can listen to your true voice. Think for a moment, do you really got no answer. Actually, we always knew what we truly love, nevertheless, we don’t take any step forward. Because it’s not about your desire you are afraid of, it’s about the unknown path which gives you fear.
Humans are made through all emotions — Love, hate, anger, attachment, fear, compassion. As a result, no one on this earth gets the life in which he or she finds no disappointment.
In the chaos of my career, where I don’t know that my life love lies in blogging or travelling the world. And just starting or taking the first step will give me a sense of freedom. I always wonder — How people know the path to be happy, in their busy schedules. Although, slowly I realized that, if you love yourself enough, eventually you find your way.
However, it doesn’t mean I am never upset about anything but at least I don’t feel lost or stuck. Similarly, your loving moment could be anything — playing with your kids, reading books, go out with your friends, travelling or writing etc. It’s totally up to you how you like to spend your time to be in present.
“As human beings, we all want to be happy and free from misery… we have learned that the key to happiness is inner peace. The greatest obstacles to inner peace are disturbing emotions such as anger, attachment, fear and suspicion, while love and compassion and a sense of universal responsibility are the sources of peace and happiness.” -Dalai Lama quote
And when you working so hard for your life, from earning money to buying a home, without expecting anything from anyone. Therefore, it’s time when your body, your soul also needs you only you, not anyone else. Your family, friends, the lover can only support you as a helper, but it’s you who have to fight against all odds. Believe that you could love yourself enough, don’t find any approval from anyone. You are complete on your own.
Not everybody gets good grades in school, still some of them are able to make good money outside, No?
The point is, we are living in a very dramatic and unpredictable world. At one point, a trip to Bali felt like heaven which creates a traveller inside you. But, the other day — the internet storm grabs you & you finding the ways to get rich. Our priorities now changing every day, Still, the majority of people feeling the void in their souls.
Now few ways which I applied to find what my life love is? Hope you too find them helpful to act and live happily.
Each one of them went through tough times, faced challenges from their family and society. Still, the courage to follow the heart never goes down, because that is what gives them a sense of fulfilment. And they know, Every best thing takes time and patience.
You only have to take the first step, don’t worry about future results. Just play with your passion give it time, make mistakes, learn from them. You see eventually, your heart identifies it.
No matter how hard it seems right now. If you have enough belief in your self then everybody will support you eventually.
Every successful story is about how many failures you faced, the more the numbers the bigger the success:).
2. Have you felt the love ever? — Well, if you do then probably you know what it feels like. When you truly care and love something then no matter what, your mind fall for that again and again. Regardless, how hard you try to control yourself, your mind and heart seem like in no control of yours.
“All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them.” — Walt Disney.
3. Leave 9 to 5, for Happiness? You hate your job, all rich and happy people leave the 9 to 5 routine behind to take the happy class. Every happy person has to leave jobs to lead a good life, well probably you might believe the wrong. Because, if you believe this, then you can’t be a happy person at all. Do self-analysis, to become happy, you should know what your passion is? If it’s not a job then what — To become a singer or painter or becoming a blogger or anything else.
But in case you like your monthly paychecks then probably you need some break to reset your mood.
- Accept what you have right now.
- Enjoy every moment — Eating food? Just put all your senses in it while eating it.
- Drinking coffee? Smell it fully enjoy the taste, be present.
- Sitting with your family — share your memories, try to indulge in every activity.
4. Earth needs balance — You know the cycle of nature, right? Animals eat other animals, plants take energy through rain, sunlight etc. Birds, eat food through plants. Though, when nature created humans surely she never imagined that one day oceans would eat plastic, animals would die because of pollution, plants cut down to build the cities. Humans can’t even touch each other due to pandemics.
When we talk about a happy life or life love, everything we need is only for ourselves. I want to be happy, wanna travel to beautiful destinations, do my favourite stuff.
No one talks about global warming, or what if all the resources will vanish. The point here is to understand, that nature needs balance — animals, plants, ocean, forest, human everything.
Hence, to get what you desire the most, you have to show enough faith in god’s work. He won’t leave any of his followers. Trust the universe, his ways are quite secretive to take out any problem from your life. But, likewise magical too to give what you deserve. God knows how to balance out your life so that you get everything in synchronicity.
5. Nothing is late, you are right on time
Crying for a situation, which is happening against your wish is not how this planet works. Do you ever see nature crying for not having enough — rain, sunlight, air or food? Every species, living or non-living knows that nature loves patience and has its own right timing to create everything.
Always looking around and then complaining, why god not fulfilling my desires, showing lack of your faith in him and question to his divine timings. Instead of asking why? You should believe is working for you, he is giving you the right teachings every day so that you will get the lasting benefits.
I know saying is easy than doing, but your day to day actions are the only way you can create your love for your life. That’s how we accept life in a more fulfilling way and respect the things we owned.
When you do what exactly your heart says, you actually started to feel amazing for every little thing you own.
In one of the famous and greatest books, I’ve read so far “Don’t sweat the small stuff,” by Richard Carlson how amazingly he mentioned that one can win over his or her day without crippling over the same stuff every day and take charge of their life. By not wasting their time on every small stuff which is occurring in daily life.
So don’t bother much about the future, instead, try to create small happy moments every day, read good happy books, enjoy your coffee, feel your relaxing couch, enjoy your food. Don’t let your life take over you, life love is all about small little moments you are living right now — so make it your best:)
Originally published at https://flyplanett.com on October 14, 2020.
